“Should’a…could’a…would’a!” Don’t waste your precious energy regretting past decisions. It’s easy to get caught up in the “I shouldn’t have” trap, but what’s the use…you did!
So if your mind chatter is all about, “You shouldn’t have bought the new car, shouldn’t have taken that holiday, shouldn’t have left your job, shouldn’t have bought the new boots”…well, move on! It’s done and over. No sense losing sleep regretting. That kind of stress just keeps you stuck.
Ask yourself, “Would I make a different decision tomorrow given the same circumstances?” If the answer is, “YES” identify what decision you might make today and keep it in your bag of tricks for next time. If the answer is “NO”, enjoy and stop the senseless worrying.
Until next posting…Grab Life by the Crown! The Burnout Queens xx