If someone shares their dream, vision, or idea with you and you see they are clearly excited …
What do you do? How do you respond? What do you say?
When I share my enthusiasm about starting a new venture, challenging myself personally, or uprooting my life, I am generally met with great curiosity, support and love from those around me (except my mother of course, but darlings, that’s a whole other story).
I’ve also met those who are shocked that I will do what I say I want to do “Oh, you mean you’re actually going to Do this (incredulous tone required!) and then
I’ve met those who feel the deep need to be negative, warn you and wonder what’s gotten into you lately? (omg, I know someone who hated what you’re about to do). Why must they warn me or save me from my own choices I wonder? Can’t they just be happy for me?
So I have to ask, what is the cost of being gracious, even if their choice isn’t yours?
Here’s my best advice the next time someone shares their hopes and dreams with you…
Think before you share and offer
Grace if you must speak.
In love and support
The Burnout Queens xx