Dr Toby
Co-owner, The Burnout Queens
‘Putting off’ is a way of not giving to yourself.
Easy tip to stop worrying and get doing
I have a new writing project on my to-do list this week. Instantly my anxiety, self-doubt and worry rear their ugly heads; will I say it right, will it make sense, does it need to be said… and on and on I go erecting hurdles to make the task difficult. Unfortunately I haven’t even started!
This is such a typical hurdle for HSP’s gripped with mind chatter and performance anxiety (guilty as charged)
Here’s a tip I used that helped me get over myself.
I sent an email to my blackberry with a confidence boosting message + the 3 steps needed to get the project done: ‘we can do this: 1 topic–3 talking points–2 exercises’. While working, I glanced at it periodically just to stay on point.
Simple and it actually worked. Hope it helps you as well. Dr Bev xx
Monday Mantra…Be Grateful
The Burnout Pups Weekend Wisdom
Quentin shares his Weekend Wisdom: He’s off to play croquet because he knows play is a great way to de-stress after a long week. He’s suggesting you do the same. “Croquet anyone?” xx