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5 Signs of Exhaustion Creep & How to Regain Your Groove

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5 Signs of Exhaustion Creep & How to Get Your Groove Back!

Typically when autumn and winter arrive, I never like waking up,  going to work, and returning home in the dark.  I feel like a mole and I miss my summer shadows. I think most people (and especially women) feel more tired and we are all more susceptible to flus, colds and achy everything.

Well, I’ve decided to dub this feeling ‘exhaustion creep’.

Here are 5 recognisable signs that the ‘e-creep’ is with you (of course there are many more):

    • You yawn way more often
    • You can’t focus very long because you just want to have a nap
    • You can’t get or stay asleep, making you a grumpy sheep counting expert
    • You feel dull and achy in your body and joints
    • You skip the exercise regime because…(fill in favourite excuse)

Sound familiar?  These are all pretty recognisable signs,  but as ‘be-all-and-do-all-women’ we still have to keep going don’t we!  We just don’t have time for ‘exhaustion creep’.   So we push through, the exhaustion increases and end up feeling sluggish and low in energy.

Well good news, here’s how to regain your groove: 

  • Eat meals on time (breakfast, lunch & dinner please)
  • Stretch your body (she’ll thank you for it)
  • Take a quiet walk  (crunch of leaves underfoot can be therapeutic)
  • Deep breathe on purpose for 5 minutes  (in to 4-hold to 4- out to 8)
  • Drink water to hydrate  (coffee & tea while hot, are dehydrating)

Simple everyday ways to keep your groove intact because You are a Burnout Queen!

Love, Dr T & Dr B xx

Hello from Brighton & London: 31 October 2015

Hello from London & Brighton

November and we gained one hour of precious time back for another year! Don’t know how you used your extra hour, but this Burnout Pup never needs an invitation to catch up on beauty sleep! (cute, cuddly and lazy)

Hello from Brighton-London

We had a less eventful October. Roof repairs kept us in more than we wished (how many visits & workmen does it take to fix a roof) but it’s now done and no more leaks! With the plants back in place, we got busy preparing the ‘garden’ for winter! We enlisted the help of two little gardeners but they were too busy peaking at the neighbours to be of any use! And one of them spent the afternoon mesmerised (as he does) by the watering can.

Hello from Brighton-London

Hello from Brighton-London

 

We booked a cultural day trip into London’s V & A Museum’s Shoes: Pleasure & Pain and The Fabric of India. No pictures allowed, but they were stunning, shocking (little shoes on grown women), historical (14th C sandals) and the Fabrics were vibrant and inspiring. Of course, stopping, sitting & sipping tea is always a great way of soaking up the London vibe.

Hello from Brighton-London

Hello from Brighton-London

 

Back at the seaside, we’re continuing to discover new and quirky areas to visit, like The North Laines’ cute shops, tea stops and locals (if you want a good shave you’ll just have to step over this guy’s sun perch).

Hello from Brighton-London

Hello from Brighton-London

 

There has been work, between our play. Our member’s club The Realm!, is truly international and it’s never too late to be part of this amazing (and fun) group of women. We’re preparing our inaugural virtual ‘Afternoon Tea’ event for November so think of this as your official invitation to join us…sign up at the bottom of this newsletter!

Hello from Brighton-LondonNovember adventures are fast approaching. Theatre tickets, luncheon dates, Christmas fairs and pet sitter booked. You can be sure we’ll snap-the-adventures for you. Oh…and we couldn’t say good-bye without sharing this beautiful sunset outside the kitchen window (yes it’s truly a window with a view)!

Until next time, Embrace Life!
The Burnout Queens | Dr Toby and Dr Bev

PS: If you fancy making your own life adventure that little bit bigger, braver or bolder then please join us in The Realm! We are all waiting to welcome you. (https://theburnoutqueens.com/the-realm).

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The Motivation Dilemma…Stop Sitting and Waiting!

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Oh how we have come to dread hearing the ‘M’ word!  You know the one…

♦       I have no motivation.

♦       I just can’t get motivated.

♦       I don’t know what will motivate me.

♦       I’ve lost my motivation!  (Quick call search and rescue!)

Oh the motivation dilemma!  If you are waiting to be ‘struck’ by motivation, kind of like lightning, it’s not a good bet given that lightning never strikes twice in the same place!  So much for motivation.  Well, you don’t have to wait for the heavens to part, motivation is in each and every one of us right now, tomorrow, and each and every day after that.  “Great”  you say, “so how do I find it?” (Ahhhhhhhh!)

You don’t find motivation…

You don’t get hit by divine motivation…

You live motivation!

Motivation is in the doing.  Motivation takes commitment and follow-through.  It’s about action.   If you sit and wait for motivation, you could be waiting a very long time, a lifetime even!  Have you got the patience for that?   No, you have to get up and do, get up and try, sometimes over and over again if you want to feel motivated.

Try this…think about something that you have been waiting to be motivated to do.  Now ask yourself,  “Why am I waiting and what exactly am I waiting for?”  Wouldn’t you get more satisfaction and pleasure from actually digging in and doing it?  You certainly would get more results!

You ‘find’ motivation when desire and action share the same path.
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The thing is, if we really want something we usually do it.  For instance,  I want to order-in dinner tonight, no problem with my motivation.  How about taking Friday afternoon off?  I’ve got motivation galore!  So question number one just has to be,

If you absolutely aren’t motivated to act, is it something you truly want to do?

It’s pretty simple, next time you are waiting for motivation to hit, get honest about what you want to do or what the desired outcome is for you.  Then after consideration, you still want to do it, just start.  Take a step NOW.  You will love yourself!  Once you begin to see motivation as a verb rather than a noun the sky is your limit!

Darling, doing is a choice, so get up,get moving and get motivated!

Until Next Time…Grab Life by the Crown!

The Burnout Queens | Dr Toby and Dr Bev

P.S.  The BOQs would love to hear from you!  Leave your wisdom and comments in the box below.

PPS!  The Burnout Queens have a special invitation waiting for you…

We would love you to be part of our exclusive members only club for women, The Realm!

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