Burnout and the B-Bunny | A Quirky Easter Fable Just For You!

Burnout and the B-Bunny | A Quirky Easter Fable Just For You!

Our culture confuses burnout with achievement and success.  It seems at times that society endorses and admires living in a way that creates burnout.  Crazily working 60 hour weeks, driving the luxury car, and running from meeting to meeting in Manolo’s has become synonymous with making your way to the top and having it all.

Well there is one cultural icon that embodies a burnout lifestyle, you know the one…pink, fuzzy, 6-inches tall, musical, and just doesn’t know when to give it a rest!  Without further adieu, we introduce you to the B-Bunny and our slightly quirky little fable,

How The B-Bunny Got To The Other Side Of The Road!

B-Bunny #1  makes a mad dash, dodging cars, jumping curbs arriving out of breath, huffing and puffing but exhilarated with the rush and flush of success.  B-Bunny #1 uses this strategy even when there is no traffic.  Hey, it works.

B-Bunny #2 approaches every crossing with in-depth planning.  After all, she tells herself, timing is everything.  Well almost everything.  B-Bunny #2 also has to pick the perfect route; check the weather forecast; calculate how many tries it may take; and perhaps most importantly consider what all the other bunnies will think about how B-Bunny makes the trip.  With so much to consider, worry about and decide on B-Bunny #2 completely misses her opportunity to cross the road so heads back home promising to try it again tomorrow…if, of course, everything is just right.

B-Bunny #3 plans a route across, sizes up the road, looks both ways, checks for danger, does warm up stretches, then heads across.  She stops at the centre curb to recharge and reassess the situation then heads for the other side.  B-Bunny #3 arrives safely with a great feeling of accomplishment and indulges in a tiny celebratory dance.  Success!  You try crossing a 3-lane motorway when only 6 inches tall!

B-Bunny #4 stands by the side of the road, then sits by the side of the road.   She is trying to summon the energy to dash once more.  B-Bunny #4 remembers being just like B-Bunny #1 full of zip, never droopy, and never stopping.  Then one day B-Bunny #4 lost her zip, hit the wall so to speak…it wasn’t pretty.  B-Bunny #4 doesn’t know a different way to cross the road, so she sits and waits and waits hoping to feel that old energy and pep.  Finally B-Bunny #4 turns back, disappointed in her effort, and giving up on reaching the other side of the road this one last time.  B-Bunny #4 is finally out of juice.

Where does that leave our bevy of bunnies?

B-Bunny #1 continues her mad dash.  Most times it still feels pretty exciting to make it to the other side.  One day though her dash and dodge technique is going to get, well dodgy.  It doesn’t bare thinking about…Eeeww.

B-Bunny #2 is stuck in worry-mode.  Sooner or later, probably later, B-Bunny #2 will make a decision but until then it’s easier to not cross the road.  She’s on the fast track to losing her zip!

B-Bunny #4 lost the plot.  Too many mad breathless dashes left B-Bunny #4 at the side of the road, too pooped to pop…or hop.

Wait, what about B-bunny #3?  Well she read that other fable, you know the one about the tortoise and the hare, and she got it!  Although the allure of the hare was enticing, the tortoise made it to the finish line.  B-Bunny #3 has dreams and goals and plans a long life of crossing many different roads.

So, what’s the moral of our little story?  Frankly I was never that great at interpreting those famous fable lessons, but I do know this one for sure…

There is nothing sadder than a burned out bunny!

Before we go it begs the question…who are you like?

B-Bunny #1 Mad Dasher

B-Bunny #2 the Perfectionist

B-Bunny #4, Burnout Bunny

or…

B-Bunny #3 most likely to Succeed

Happy Easter from The Burnout Queens!

Hello from London & Brighton | 8 April 2017

Hello from London & Brighton

Well Spring is here in the northern hemisphere and the flowers are putting on the best show ever.  For The Burnout Queens spring is the perfect time to put down new (and historic) roots.

 

The Burnout Pup thanks all of you for sending hugs as he continues on bedrest for his back.  He is showing signs of improvement so we may dodge the ‘surgery bullet’ for the time being.  His spiffy and sturdy little back brace makes him so confident that he’s back in high spirits, albeit without the ball play.  And yes, that means Dr T has been released from the pen (aka ‘the camper’ as we lovingly refer to it).

Last month we searched Chichester for a new home. This month while Dr T did pup-duty, Dr B took a 13 minute train ride to Lewes to view properties. Voila we are moving!  You can’t deny the magnificence of this view from the kitchen window!!

Enjoy a browse of our new village, while we pack, complete the paperwork and take a breather…yes of course with tea and cake!

 

 

See you later in May from Lewes!

Love,

Too Exhausted for a Life Vision…think again!

Seeking the Big Picture | Life Vision Means Living Burnout Free

The Burnout Queens know that most of our Highly Sensitive Women are tired, frazzled and pulled in every direction in their everyday lives.  So to suggest one more thing for them to pack into their lives seems cruel.  But…

A Life Vision is just what these doctors order for frazzled, fried and burned out women.  We know that on any given day, plans can get interrupted, postponed and forgotten in all the details of ‘being and doing’ for everyone.  THAT is precisely why having a Life Vision is so very important to cultivate at different stages of your life.  When it all goes sideways, isn’t it better to be able to go back to the drawing board and know you have already drawn something to follow?  When the chaos and busyness drop off, you can reconnect with yourself quickly and without much struggle.

Quickly and without struggle.  Foreign words to busy women, but they can exist.

On our previous blog (Do You Have a Life Vision)  we outlined two of our Ideas about Life Visioning to help you get started and not become overwhelmed.   Today we’re offering another two for your consideration.

The Burnout Queens want you to stop struggling and actually think about what it is you want in your life.  It’s easier to plan and achieve once the vision (the big picture) is clear.  So try these:

Idea:  Vision is different than purpose.  However, the dreams you have for your life can reveal your purpose to you.  Your life purpose is embedded in your life vision at the age of 12 or 20 or 50 or 80 or…

Idea:  Dreams come from the realm of “what if” and having a vision or a dream requires truthfulness about who you are and what you want.  Truthfulness in your vision does not have to lead to limitation.  Vision is expansive, illusion is limiting.  Vision lends itself to plans and goals, illusion is a dead end.

Come on Darling.  Start dreaming and achieving a life you want to live for yourself.  I bet you do it all the time for your family, your friends, your colleagues.  It’s time for you to get the big picture for your life and step in!

(It may help to read our March 11th Feature Article:  Seeking the Big Picture | Life Vision Means Living Burnout Free here:

Leave us a comment and share what your vision is.  We’d love to hear.

With love, The Burnout Queens xx

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