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Day 2: About to Snap like A Christmas Kracker? 

Day 2: It’s About Aunt Flossie’s Candy Cane Trifle!

About to Snap like A Christmas Kracker?
The Burnout Queen’s 12 Days of Holiday Stress Relief will help you through.

Day 2:  It’s About Aunt Flossie’s Candy Cane Trifle! 

The BIG holiday rule is that you can never break the holiday rules.  After all your Great Great Great Aunt Flossie made her famous candy cane trifle for the first time and we’ve had it every year since!  It’s tradition!

Do you dread some of the usual holiday traditions and get queasy when you think of breaking them? Time to sit down with a cuppa and have a really honest think about them.  What do they mean to you?  Do they make you smile at the memories, snarl or want to weep?

So keep the ones that are meaningful and cross off the ones that no longer fit!  Worried about ruffling some turkey feathers?  Keep in mind that it will all be over by January 2!

Make this the year you start some traditions of your own.  Reinvigorate the holidays with something new!

Be bold,
Dr Toby & Dr Bev
The Burnout Queens

p.s. Please feel free to share these with our Holiday blessings!

Day 1: About to Snap like A Christmas Kracker?

12 Days of Holiday Stress Relief

About to Snap like A Christmas Kracker?
The Burnout Queen’s 12 Days of Holiday Stress Relief will help you through.

Day 1:  On The First Day Of….Make A List!  Make 2!

List everything you have to do, should do, ought to do, would like to do, have promised to do during the holidays.  Then get real!

Immediately cross off the ‘shoulds and ought tos’ and then divvy your tasks up  with this fabulously simple method.

First:  Focus on your ‘Absolute Musts’.  These are pretty obvious.

Second:  Decide on your ‘Great Ifs’. You know these ones, “Time permitting it would be ‘great if’ I could get to [fill in the blank]”.

Third:  [Oh we love these] ‘If onlys’!  “If all Santa’s helpers showed-up I could paint my whole house in 2 days time!”  And, Mrs. Claus would supply the treats!

Of course Christmas is a magical time, but save the magic for sugar plums and not your To Do list!

It’s good to believe,

Dr Toby & Dr Bev
The Burnout Queens

p.s. Please feel free to share these with our Holiday blessings!

Hello from the English countryside! 8 September 2020

Hello from London & Lewes

Hello from the English countryside | The Burnout Queens

A personal note from Dr T & Dr B.  We hope you are staying safe and well.  During the Covid-19 global pandemic we are all searching for that ‘new normal’ in our lives: we can’t go back, we are limited moving forward, but we can live fully in the present.  For many of us that has meant rethinking values and rethinking where and how we live.  For many home is even more important as a refuge and comfort and, my darlings, that’s what this issue is all about.

Home is where the heart is.

Home for The Burnout Queens means comfort, security, style, ambience and expression.  Our HSP hearts and minds were in need of idyllic rolling fields, stone villages, hip towns, sheep, cows, horses and lots of peace and quiet.  So we found ourselves a little farm cottage that fits the bill and began a new chapter in our lives.

We had been thinking about this move for quite awhile, in fact before we even left Canada it was part of the ‘big’ plan.  Now it was time to put our plan into motion so we could live in harmony with our values and desire to live more simply and leisurely.

It’s official, we are countrified.

During the Covid-19 lockdown we moved to a small country village.  It was a relief to make it happen before total lockdown hit.  However, trying to rebuild a lifestyle when nothing was open has proved to be a huge and difficult challenge.

We had prepared and planned.  Last year we began Nordic walking and now find it a great way to walk, climb and see the countryside in a very personal way.  We never imagined that we would be trekking through fields past big historic houses or climbing footpath ladders, but here we are!

English countryside | The Burnout Queens

English countryside | The Burnout Queens

 

We challenged ourselves to plant a vegetable and flower garden to enjoy. (our friend and VA sang ‘Green Acres’ to us and she wasn’t far off).  After frustrating weeks of waiting for deliveries everything arrived at once!  Not shy of hard work Dr T and Dr B used muscle-might (and the wheelbarrow a sympathetic neighbour loaned to us) to move 1 tonne of soil into new raised beds.  The plants are now standing tall and producing a great crop for dinners with extras to share with new neighbours.

English countryside | The Burnout Queens

English countryside | The Burnout Queens

 

English countryside | The Burnout Queens

English countryside | The Burnout Queens

 

The walks around us are peaceful although not always quiet.  We have discovered just how loud sheep can be.  There is history everywhere we look; a church here, a Manor House there, and farms and fields that have existed for centuries.

English countryside | The Burnout Queens

English countryside | The Burnout Queens

 

English countryside | The Burnout Queens

The architecture is different in this new area; gone are castles, shops and brick structures replaced by thatched stone cottages, village churches, Manor Houses and many quirky little buildings.  It is definitely quintessential English countryside.

English countryside | The Burnout Queens

English countryside | The Burnout Queens

 

English countryside | The Burnout Queens

Our nature neighbours seem to have their own diverse architectural homes. Believe us when we say, that beyond the expected robins and sparrows, we had not exactly banked on getting up close and personal with this new curious neighbour!

English countryside | The Burnout Queens

English countryside | The Burnout Queens

 

English countryside | The Burnout Queens

Lockdown is easing in the UK so that means we can hop in the car and explore the backroads.  We look forward to sharing our new journey with you…even when we frequently get lost!

Stay well, stay safe.  We hope that home is truly where your heart is.

Until next time, love from Farm Cottages.

Hello from Lewes & London! 8 February 2020

Hello from London & Lewes

Little Town Living

From the time we were teenagers we dreamed of living in the big, bustling and cultured city of London and we finally made that dream come true.  The thing is dreams aren’t static, they need to evolve.  Our environments change, life changes, and we grow and change.  So our decades long dream needed to grow-up and sync with who we had now become and how we now wanted to live.

Much to our own surprise we ended up moving out of the ‘Big Smoke’ (i.e. London) and into the English countryside.  We are truly little town residents with city ties (known here as  ‘down from Londoners’).  We left the galleries and glamour for history, pastures full of sheep and cows, and muddy boots!

boots-poles | The Burnout Queens Hello

Our little county town has community, a vibe, lots and lots of history and many traditions that stand the tests of time.

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People are different here, they aren’t always walking with a mobile to their ear.  They will stop to chat, neighbours wave, the ‘veg boys’ call us ‘darling’ and you are known when you stop for tea and cake or a veggie burger!

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Our views are now of fields, sheep, swans, and cattle rather than skyscrapers and smog.  (And yes of course our Castle!)  Canada geese (they found us!) honk flying over, the garden is alive with birdsong, and the night skies are so dark (the street lights go out at midnight, we couldn’t believe it either at first!) they sparkle with stars and planets.  Our little town literally straddles the Greenwich Meridian dividing eastern and western hemispheres!  (Personally I find that powerfully interesting but then I am an HSP nerd).

Little town living has given us the courage (and dare we say desire) to ‘go’ even smaller at some point but that’s the future and who ever knows what the future holds.  All we know is we will be ready to embrace the next adventure that comes our way.

For now, we’ll enjoy the sights, sounds and pace of where we are.  There is always something to celebrate like Bonfire Night which is mad, loud, and what this town does best!

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But please, don’t just take our word for it, watch this 5 minutes of Lewes madness!!!!!

(P.S. it is hours long to watch in person and, oh yes, it gets freaking hot!)

Lewes Bonfire 2019

Until the next issue, cheers from these ‘little town Brits’!

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