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So what’s up for discussion? Environments! Which is rather funny since we are in the midst of moving and our environment consists of boxes, boxes and more boxes. At a certain point the disruption is like fingernails down a chalkboard. We know you get it since the majority of our readers and clients are Highly Sensitive as well. We all need our environments to enhance us, encourage us and energise us. (The only thing energising me now is the move date closing in!) It’s clear why this topic came up as I sit surrounded by empty shelves and piles of boxes.
Clients quite often talk ‘space’ issues, especially when their environment, work or home, isn’t working for them. Many fear being judged ‘shallow’ by worrying about their physical environments. So let’s get that out of the way…
There is nothing ‘shallow’ about honouring your unique sensitivity and designing an environment that raises your creativity and spirit.
Really, can environments actually create or contribute to burnout? Oh, my dear, they sure can. Physical surroundings affect our physical, mental and emotional health, sense of wellbeing, and most definitely creativity. Our environment can uplift and energise us or drain us to the point of depression. So what factors should you consider when looking for or designing an environment for your sensitive nature both at home and at work?
On the practical side consider: natural light vs artificial light, noise levels (including white noise), temperature, air conditioning, safety, space, openness, privacy, order vs clutter, access to fresh air, distractions, cleanliness…
Then reflect on the aesthetics of your environments and how these affect you: peacefulness, beauty, colour, style, flow, furnishings, artwork, music, scent, fresh flowers, flooring, and the presence of nature including animals.
From the moment we open our eyes in the morning all of our senses are impacted by our environment.
A bad-fit work environment can decrease effectiveness, productivity and of course creativity. It can promote errors and even raise interpersonal tension and conflict. If an environment is such a bad fit that it becomes toxic it can increase stress and anxiety, create mood, appetite or sleep changes, and even lead to physical symptoms to the point of illness.
I once worked in an environment with carpets so thick you felt like you were walking on clouds. The atmosphere was intensely quiet, all you could hear was white noise and I almost went mad! Who would have thought such luxury could be oppressive.
Environments affect us in so many ways, for example, working in ‘old’ buildings that are damp or musty can trigger or exacerbate allergies or sinus problems; a lack of daylight can lead to feeling unnaturally sleepy or de-energised; lighting can contribute to headaches; a pure white environment can lead to lightheadedness or dizziness for some HSPs; strange smells in an environment can cause nausea (even strong perfume can create problems); too much movement or noise can lead to irritability; a lack of social stimulation can lead to loneliness even depression.
But wait, let’s not focus purely on the negative impact and forget that environments can inspire us and spur us on. The ‘right’ environment can calm us, help us fall in love, push us to try new things and accomplish and achieve our dreams. An inspiring environment helps the poem or book get written, the painting emerge from the canvas, the latest fashion spring from your sewing machine, or the best cake ever emerge from the oven.
The serenity of our environment helps keep us in touch with spirit.
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Creating an environment that does all of these things is the main reason we are moving, not just houses, but cities! The ‘must haves’ on our environment list include beauty, creativity, culture, nature, convenience of lifestyle and our health, physically, emotionally and spiritually. Then of course it has to suit the burnout pups! (Between you and me, I have found Hawaiian print dog coats…I’m thinking beachware! Now you know you want to watch for this on their Pinterest board!)
If you want to get rid of that burnout lifestyle then it’s time to take your environment and raise it to new heights. Whatever the style your boldest self calls for, be it elegant, luxurious, minimalist or quirky, give it the respect it’s worthy of because you are worth it!
Here’s one great tip:
Like we said, the minute you open your eyes in the morning your senses engage with your environment. What one simple thing could you add, take-away or change that would elevate your comfort and quality of living? Got one? Do it now.
What’s New
The Burnout Queens ‘Essential Classes’ are being launched! Each one is a great addition to your resource library, not to mention your sanity! First up…
Get the Skinny on Burnout!
Are you ready to take your first step towards living a burnout-free lifestyle?
Well, creative-one, this is exactly where you need to start! Our fabulous and super-reasonable 3-video ‘essential’ class is your fundamental step to becoming a Burnout Queen…strong, resilient, enthusiastic and powerful.
What’s not to love about that!
Read about it here: https://theburnoutqueens.com/get-the-skinny-on-burnout/
Next class waiting in the wings: Have You Been Raised & Trained to Burn Out? (What do you think…have you?) Watch for an announcement shortly.
Until next time…Grab Life by the Crown!
The Burnout Queens on Huffington Post
Again we are excited to share our latest publication with Huffington Post Lifestyle (UK).
Can’t Be Burnout…It’s Just Stress will enlighten you on why most women misread the signs and symptoms of Burnout for just feeling stressed and stretched.
If you relate, please don’t be shy…leave us your thoughts. Love The Burnout Queens xx
Cupid Is Really Getting On My Nerves!
I’ve been sitting at my computer for an hour and a half waiting for divine intervention (tick, tick, tick…still waiting…). Here’s my dilemma, it’s Valentine’s Day and my thoughts are hijacking everything I write in an attempt to make it all red, rosey, and chocolatey! But my heart, which is what Valentine’s Day is supposed to be all about, wants me to write in a different direction. So, in honour of my heart that is what I am going to do.
You can’t love, be real, or be free when you live in fear.
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One of my all time favourite books is a ‘little’ book called “Love is Letting Go of Fear” by Gerald Jampolsky. Now when I say ‘little’ I mean it’s truly skinny in size but huge in ideas. I admit when I first encountered this book decades ago, I didn’t get it. I wasn’t ready to get it. So as most of us do with things we don’t get, I dismissed it. Rubbish! (My apologies for my youthful ignorance.)
Years later, mysteriously, this little book flew off the shelf, I swear with angel’s wings it flew off the bookcase landing in my unexpecting hands. Blessedly, this time I read it and I got it. (Which is why you should never ever get rid of a book!)
Love and fear are mutually exclusive.
You can’t live in fear and love life. You can’t live fearfully and love yourself. Fear makes us feel vulnerable and visible, so we hold ourselves back from loving.
When I let go of my fear I love my child enough to let them grow and go. | |
When I let go of fear I watch with love as my partner pursues their dreams. | |
When I stop fearing loss, I allow myself to love with abandon. |
Are you beginning to get the idea?
When I fear failure, I can’t love the breathlessness of trying something for the first time. | |
If I fear success, I can’t love the exhilaration of accomplishment. | |
When I fear being visible, it is impossible to love the boldness of my creativity. | |
When I fear not being understood, I cannot love openly and honestly. |
BE Love.Love is quiet, love is gentle, love is big and love is bold…love is all there is (to quote Lennon & McCartney, a true love of this sixties girl!). Love means letting go of fear because fear is inconsequential in the face of pure love. With love’s power we can change the world. Join us in the spirit of Valentine’s Day and embrace Love…
Here’s one great tip:
Each day for the next week let love show its power through your words and actions. Find a way, small or big, to be love. Holding back? Face the fear that is stopping you from experiencing and expressing the you that is Love. Remember, love means letting go of fear. Go ahead, be bold, be love.
Until next time…Grab Life by the Crown!
The Burnout Queens on Huffington Post
Just in time for Valentine’s Day, we wanted to share our pleasure with being published in Huffington Post’s Lifestyle section.
“Love or Singleness Burnout” Have a read and happiness and love to you all, from The Burnout Queens xx