Burnout

The experience of living with burnout and exhaustion for professional, creative and highly sensitive women

Hello from Brighton & London!: 1 October 2016

Happy October!  September brought the last few days of our family visit, and that meant enjoying the last few days of cultural splendour at museums and castles in and around London.  An exhibition of lingerie, a bomb scare evacuation at the coach station (made for a hasty retreat into the back streets), the little train ride to the castle, all added-up to a great time.

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And now The Burnout Queens are back to normal, whatever you want normal to be when you live and work from home.   For us seaside normal is enjoying rituals like Sunday breakfasts and Friday doughnut mornings in The North Laines.  It’s a fabulous way to enjoy the vibe of the area and squeeze in our daily walk as well.

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Getting back into the everyday groove can be challenging, so we booked something cultural to give us a day away from ‘the office’.  Brighton was the final stop for the play, ‘The Dresser’ prior to opening on London’s West End.  We couldn’t miss this opportunity for brilliant acting and drama, so we dropped everything and booked an afternoon matinee (the perks of solopreneurs).   If you are in London go see it, it’s fab, and if you aren’t you can always watch the timeless movie.

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We are definitely ready for Autumn and any rainfall that arrives with it.  Well, The Burnout Pups are at least.  No more wringing out the buckets of damp from these shorties now that new raingear is here (they always look adorable).  And while we didn’t get new rain attire, we will console ourselves with yummy tea and home baking!

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Did you see, listen to, or read about our newest project?   We have just launched it! 

Quiet the Buzz of Everyday Life…
creating calm for the Highly Sensitive Woman.

The programme shares our unique ‘everyday’ way to quiet overarousal, create a calmer you, and make you more resiliant to the busyiness and stress of daily life.  Mini-audios and videos (21 in all) show you a variety of ways to enjoy and benefit from physical relaxation, breath awareness, mindfulness and even some mini meditations.  Little and often is our philosophy.

It’s quick, it’s easy and it doesn’t break the budget.  Your best buy at £27.99 for everything (or £22.99 if you are a member of The Realm!). 

Quiet-the-Buzz-title-page201Watch our video presentation here and get started! https://theburnoutqueens.com/quiet-buzz-sales

 

 

Until November (wow), have a groovy month.

Love,

The Burnout Queens | Dr Toby and Dr Bev

PS:  The Realm!  Our global women’s club is growing fast and our reach is truly worldwide (although there are a few corners on the map we have yet to welcome),so count yourself in too.   Register for your instant membership here: https://theburnoutqueens.com/the-realm/

Rest for the Soul

dandelionWe awoke to a great new research study being talked about on BBC Breakfast earlier this week.  It’s called The Anatomy of Rest and perhaps you’ve heard about it by now.  If not, let us share some of the findings with you.

We are talking about REST, which is not to be confused with Sleep.  There has been plenty of research conducted on sleep patterns, amount of sleep, sleep deprivation, etc, etc, etc.  For the first time there is a study on rest.  18,000 people  from 134 countries took a Rest Test by BBC Radio 4 and Wellcome Collection’s researchers Hubbub.  What do you think they found?

The findings are bang on with what we at The Burnout Queens and all our community of highly sensitive and exhausted women know all too well.  We need and want more rest!

2/3 of the people in this study said they wanted more rest.  When asked what would rest look like, it came in different forms, everything from sleeping, sipping coffee, sitting in front of the TV and doing ultramarathons.  The top ‘rest activity’ came as a surprise to the research team… Reading. The other top activities were ‘being in nature’, music and being alone.  It seems the majority of us need and want regular solitude to rest and restore ourselves.

So why don’t we rest more?  The report showed we feel guilty when we squeeze out time for ourselves.  I don’t think this is surprising to women.  We feel selfish and self-centred (which means our guilt and stress rises) when we take time away from everything and everybody else in our lives to have a quiet moment for us. Women are already living in a state of exhaustion and don’t think they have the ‘time’ to recoup.  We have to turn that notion on it’s head. The ultimate gift we can give ourselves is to consciously and deliberately create an inner calm that will make us more resilient to the outside world.

Now here’s the easy part. The Burnout Queens have designed a fast, simple and extremely effective group of  21audios and videos that help you create that inner calm and resilience needed in your everyday life.  Quiet the Buzz of Everyday Life…creating calm for the Highly Sensitive Woman can be done anywhere, anytime; walking, shopping, waiting for the kids, on your break, waiting for your latte.  Promise.

Why not see for yourself and solve the dilemma of rest, calm and quiet within yourself?!?   Watch our video about Quiet the Buzz and get yourself started now

Embrace the calm!

With love, The Burnout Queens

 

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